Love In the Digital Age: Exploring the Role of Popular Ndebele Wedding Songs in the Post-2000 Era

Authors

DOI:

https://doi.org/10.25159/2663-6697/20782

Keywords:

love, Ndebele culture, Ndebele wedding songs, popular music, digital era

Abstract

The classical wedding songs of the Ndebele people of Zimbabwe played a significant role in weddings. Over the years, these songs have been a crucial element in strengthening marital bonds. Among other roles, such as entertainment and the creation of memories, the songs served as counselling tools for the wedding couple. The intrinsic counselling messages in the songs were meant to educate the concerned couple about the marital responsibilities and obligations they were about to shoulder. Also, as vehicles of the Ndebele people’s perceptions, values, struggles, and aspirations concerning the marriage institution, the songs bordered on social norms and code of conduct expected in the marital union. However, the post-2000 era has witnessed profound shifts in the musical landscape, technological advancements, and cultural norms about weddings. Through observations, interviews and lyrical analysis of the selected trending Ndebele popular songs played in weddings in the post-2000 era in the Ndebele society, this study examines the transforming role of wedding songs, exploring how they shape, reflect, and negotiate contemporary notions of love and marriage. The findings reveal a decline in classical wedding music, a rise in personalised playlists, and an increased emphasis on sentimental value rather than the marital responsibilities and obligations that were traditionally couched in wedding songs. The study adopts the theory of Afrocentricity. The theory is critical in shedding light on the intersections between culture, music, and technology, shedding light on how the selected wedding songs mediate and reflect the complexities of modern love.

References

Achebe, Chinua. 1976. Notes on Chinua Achebe's No Longer at Ease. London: Heinemann Educational Books.

Aissata, Niandou. 2025. "Wedding Songs as a Means of Socialization in Selected Hausa Songs." UAI J Arts Humanit Soc Sci 2(1): 57-61. DOI: 10.5281/zenodo.14745569

Asante, Molefe. 1991. "The Afrocentric Idea in Education." Journal of Negro Education. 60(2): 170-179.

https://doi.org/10.2307/2295608

Asante, Molefe. 1996. "Multiculturalism in the Academy." Academe 82(3): 20-23.

https://doi.org/10.2307/40251475

Asante, Molefe. 2003. Afrocentricity: The Theory of Social Change. Chicago: African American Images.

Asante, Molefe. 2007. An Afrocentric Manifesto: Toward an African Renaissance. Cambridge: Polity Press.

Encyclopaedia Britannica. 2025. "Popular Music Description, History, and Facts."

Chitando, Ezra. 2016. "Zvakaoma Kuva Munhu Wemurume (It is Tough to be a Man): Selected Zimbabwe Musicians on the Burdens of Masculinity." In Sounds of Life: Music, Identity and Politics in Zimbabwe, edited by Fainos Mangena, Ezra Chitando, and Itai Muwati, 2-18. Cambridge: Cambridge Scholars Publishing.

Diko, Mlamli. 2024. "Wedding Songs Entwine Souls: Applying Ethnomusicology in the Didactic and Pedagogical Dimensions of AmaXhosa Wedding Songs." Southern African Journal for Folklore Studies 33(2): 1-23. https://doi.org/10.25159/2663-6697/13784

https://doi.org/10.25159/2663-6697/13784

Dlamini-Myeni, Bongephiwe, and Mbokazi, Samkelisiwe. 2024. "Ubuciko Bomlomo: Wedding Songs as an Effective Means of Communication and Education among The Zulu People." e-Bangi: Journal of Social Sciences and Humanities 21(1): 411-426.

https://doi.org/10.17576/ebangi.2024.2101.35

Ebun, Ogoma. 2014. "Reflection On an African Traditional Marriage System." Journal of Social Sciences and Public Affairs 4 (1): 1-11.

Mazama, Ama. 2003. The Afrocentric Paradigm. Trenton: Africa World Press.

Mjomba, George. 2012. "Humility in Taita Wedding Songs." Master's Dissertation, University of Nairobi.

Mugandani, Viola, and Vermeulen, Dorette. 2016. "Jangwa Wedding Songs among the Manyika People of Zimbabwe: Cultural Meanings and Functions Conveyed through Song Lyrics." Southern African Journal for Folklore Studies 26 (1): 1-15. https://doi.org/10.25159/1016-8427/565

Ndao, Soda. 2023. "Traditional Marriage in Africa: A Pragmatic Analysis of the Wedding Songs in Saalum Communities." Studies in Social Science Research. 4(2):125-234. https://doi.org/10.22158/sssr.v4n2p125

Ndebele, Lickel, and Dube, Progress. 2016. "Music and Ethnicity in 'A Primitive Society': A Case Study of Ndebele Wedding Songs." In Sounds of Life Music, Identity and Politics in Zimbabwe, edited by Fainos Mangena, Ezra Chitando, and Itai Muwati, 279-287. Cambridge: Cambridge Scholars Publishing.

Ndebele, Lickel. 2022. "A Socio-historical Study of Ndebele Marriage Counselling in Selected Genres of Ndebele Oral Literature." PhD Dissertation, University of Zimbabwe.

Ndlovu, Lindiwe, and Sibanda, Faith. 2015. "Wedding Songs as Discourses of Traditional Marriage Counselling." In Indigenous Knowledge in Zimbabwe: Laying Foundations for Sustainable Livelihoods, edited by Jacob Mapara and Michael Mazuru, 171-183. Gloucestershire: Diaspora Publishers.

Nyathi, Phathisa. 2001. Traditional Ceremonies of AmaNdebele. Gweru: Mambo Press.

P'Bitek, Okot. 1986. Artist the Ruler: Essays on Culture, Literature and Values. Nairobi: Heinemann.

Rukuni, Mandivamba. 2007. Being Afrikan: Rediscovering the Traditional Unhu-ubuntu-botho Pathways of Being Human. Arcadia: Mandala.

White, Ellen. 1980. Adventist Home. Washington: Ellen G. White Estate.

Published

2026-01-30

How to Cite

Ndebele, Lickel, and Progress Dube. 2026. “ Love In the Digital Age: Exploring the Role of Popular Ndebele Wedding Songs in the Post-2000 Era”. Southern African Journal for Folklore Studies, January, 16 pages . https://doi.org/10.25159/2663-6697/20782.

Issue

Section

Articles